Question for the girls?

You seem to have it figured out. Love will find you when you're not looking for it. Do what you love first, and someone will come along. You just haven't met the right person yet. If you're looking for a stronger, deeper connection with a person, don't follow your guy friends and pick girls up at bars or parties or places like that. Meet someone somewhere else. Do the stuff you love and try to meet someone single who is doing the same thing.